What is a crush really? Why do people tend to get caught up in crushes?
I remember having the biggest crush on a guy once. I’d randomly show up at places where I knew he’d be. The craziest thing was that he was sooooo nice. If I didn’t know any better I would’ve read more into that than there was. This crush? This crush was different I was giving him an opportunity to “see” me and express his unrequited love for me…NOT!!!
WAKE UP!! No more hiding behind that crush. . . I say this with love.
It’s one of the most unhealthy things you can do, because while you’re Jonesen over fantasy land Mr. Right you’re missing the opportunity of connecting with the real Mr. Right.
Connect to the NOW
Most of the time the fantasy starts because you are living in “what could be” with no real intention of ever letting your “crush” know how you feel. Meditate daily and take in the environment around you. Focus on the present moment.
Control your thoughts
Get a rubber band and every time you start to play those make-believe movies in your head. SNAP! Snap the rubber band. It works trust me.
Check-in with YOU
Is this a pattern. Is there an underlying reason for not being available to candidates.
Most of all Love YOU. Know You. You will be suprised at what you will discover.