In love with your BFF

First things first. There are pros and cons to crossing that line.
Pros:

  • You know you’re compatible
  • You already know each other’s ticks and nuances, basically that’s built in comfortability.
  • You may have found your soulmate

Cons:

  • You could take each other for granted, because of the familiarity (No honeymoon stage)
  • If it doesn’t work out splitting your set of friends could be tricky and even a disaster
  • Ultimately you risk losing the friendship

You’ll have to ask yourself the hard questions:

  1. If you tell your friend you’re in love with them, what’s the worst thing that can happen
  2. If you tell your friend you’re in love with them what’s the best thing that can happen
  3. If you don’t tell your friend you’re in love with them, whats the worst thing that can happen
  4. If you don’t tell your friend you’re in love with them what’s the best thing that could happen

I mean sit down with a sheet of paper and answer these questions one at a time. Weighing pros and cons in your head is not enough.

Are you willing to live with all of these answers? If the answer is yes. Then, go for it. Spill your guts. You only live once, but you must be willing to risk everything to gain it all. Hey, everyone wants to be married to their best friend, right?

Conversation Starters:

  • Have you ever thought about us being more than friends?
  • Could you ever see us being more than friends?
  • I want you to know I’ve been in love with you for a very long time?

The goal is to start the conversation, see where your friend stands, and if it is something the two of you would give a try. I mean legitimately initiate dating. Be sure not to fall into the trap of bed buddies.

Let me know how it goes.

Natasha McCrea, Love CEO

Founder

Natasha is a love and relationship coach who guides women in to living their best lives. "I believe women are the gatekeepers to love. We have more power than society has led us to believe and when we tap into that love power we can create the lives and relationships our hearts desire. I coach smart women who want to tap into that power and live a happier life.".. As an actress Natasha toured her one woman show, "Evolution of a Love Addict" Her mission in life is to encourage and empower women through all forms of media.  She is the Founder of Love CEO institute. The place that women promote themselves from Love Employee to Love CEO. She believes when you own it, it'll work for you. Natasha she lives in Los Angeles with her husband. Schedule A Private Coaching Session here: http://bit.ly/CoachMeLCI

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